How to Pick Your First Narrator When You Have No Idea What You Like

Choosing a first narrator feels like choosing a restaurant in a city you have never visited: everything looks plausible, and you suspect you will regret whichever you pick. My advice is to lower the stakes. A voice story is a few minutes of your evening, not a mortgage. If you do not warm to it, you stop, and nothing bad happens. I promise the narrator does not take it personally.

Start with the thing you already know about yourself. Do you like people who sound amused, or people who sound earnest? Do you prefer a voice that arrives like a whisper over the shoulder, or one that tells you the story across a table? On TheFriend there are characters like Sera, Priya and Mira, and each has her own manner. I will not pretend to describe a personality I have not heard you react to. Listen to a minute or two of each and notice which one makes you lean in rather than lean away.

My own first pick was Priya, mostly because her story took place on a park bench in a heat wave, and I am a man who sweats at the mention of August. 'That Summer on the Bench' follows a simple offer of seeds that turns into something a good deal warmer by the time everyone reaches an apartment door. It was gentle, a bit cheeky, and short enough that I could survive it.

Here is a small trick. If you are bilingual, or simply curious, you can try the same story in another language. Priya's confession exists in English, in Spanish as 'Aquel calor en el Retiro,' and in German as 'Sommerhitze auf meiner Haut.' I do not claim fluency in either, but hearing a familiar scene in a different tongue is oddly soothing, like walking through your own house with the lights dimmed.

If none of this narrows it down, close your eyes and pick one anyway. Your taste will announce itself within three listens, and not before. TheFriend lets you wander at your own pace, which is the only pace I have ever trusted.

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